31 Signs You’re Financially Stable
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I remember the day like it was yesterday. My wife and I were in Target, trying to decide between dental floss and aluminum foil. Being just newly married and still paying off my debt, we had no breathing room. We were not the picture of financial stability. Being financially stable means one thing – having peace of mind and there in the grocery store, we did not have that. We were at a dead end, and had no idea how to improve our situation.
Fast forward 15 years and a lot of things have changed with our finances. We max out our retirement accounts every year, we pay off our credit cards in full each month and spending just to spend holds little value to us.
Taken individually these signs may not mean you’re financially stable, rather, it’s the whole that determines financial stability. Each situation is different and we all have different journeys in life. Take a look at these signs and use them as a starting point to gauge how financially stable you are.
You Can Handle an Emergency
Emergencies happen all the time. How big of an emergency can you handle? A majority of individuals can’t handle a $400 emergency. Many say you need to have a 6-12 month emergency fund. It may feel overwhelming to get to that amount.
Don’t let that stop you! Start with a goal to save $250 and build from there. Being financially stable means you let emergencies roll off your back, financially speaking. If you’re not currently saving, pick an online savings account that allows you to automate transfers, pays you something and has no minimum balance requirements.
You Have No Problem Splurging on Yourself
What does splurging have to do with financial stability? A lot in fact. It means that your budget can withstand that special purchase without a negative impact. If you put it on your credit card, without knowing when you’ll be able to pay for it, well, that’s a different thing altogether.
You Invest Every Month
This is a financial mistake I made for far too long. I thought I needed to have a lot of money to start investing, so I held back. Being financially stable means you invest regularly. Whether that be in your 401(k) plan or in an online brokerage account (here’s a list of the best online brokerages to choose from) or some other form, you’re actively growing your wealth every month.
If managing your investments seems challenging, using a robo-advisor like Betterment can help you invest money every month. If you’re more of a DIY investor, you can start with next to nothing if you choose an app like Stash Invest who allows you to start investing with as little as $5.
When you open an account with Stash Invest they start you off with $5 so you can start investing right away in stocks or ETFs.
You Have A Low DTI
DTI, or Debt-to-Income Ratio measures your monthly debt obligations against what you make. Thus, lower is better. You can get a mortgage with a DTI as high as 43 percent though that would be incredibly foolish on several levels. However, if your DTI is half of that, then you’re much closer to being financially stable as you will have more money to work with each month.
You Use Credit Cards Wisely
Credit cards can be divisive. I love them – we have close to 40 between my wife and I. The catch? We pay them off, in full, every month.
Having that many credit cards enables us to take advantage of travel rewards. Those who aren’t financially stable use credit cards to buy things they don’t have money for to finance the kind of life they want but can’t afford.
If you use a credit card for convenience, to stretch your budget or to take advantage of rewards then you’re likely financially stable.
You Pay off Your Credit Cards Each Month
See the above. If you pay off your credit cards in full every month then you’re financially stable. As one who used to not do this, I can tell you from personal experience that the stress is not worth it.
You Don’t Fight with Your Partner
Finances are one of the biggest reasons for divorce in America. Whether that be due to financial infidelity, or some other reason it can wreak serious havoc on a marriage.
Financial stability, on the other hand, means you and your spouse are on the same page and are working towards common goals.
You Can Sleep at Night
I believe this is the most important part of being financially stable. Before we reached a moderate level of financial stability I couldn’t sleep at night. I was worried about how we would handle an emergency. I was fearful about our retirement.
Now, there’s a peace of mind where there used to be unease. Peace of mind is a huge indicator of being financially stable.
You’re not Underwater on Your Car
According to Edmunds.com, more than 60 percent of car loans are over five years in length. Additionally, the average car payment is over $500 per month! A financially stable person sees cars as a depreciating asset and thus believes it is senseless to owe more than a car is worth.
This doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t have a car payment (though I don’t plan on ever having one again), but it means you don’t extend the car loan for so long that you owe more than it’s worth.
You’re Not Scared of the Future
A financially stable person smiles at the future. They’re excited for the opportunities and what they may bring about. Financial instability, on the other hand, stokes fear about what retirement may look like or if you’ll be free of debt.
Killing Debt is Your Top Goal
Attacking debt is the top goal of those seeking financial stability. Debt enslaves you to someone/something else and restricts freedom. A financially stable person has a plan to kill debt or is already debt free.
You Live Below Your Means
Many financially sound people do one thing really well – they live on less than they make. This is by no means scientific, but I’d say saving at least half of your income is a good goal to build from. It can even be done on a variable income, so it’s possible in many situations.
You Track Your Spending in Some Fashion
Budgets don’t work for everyone. That doesn’t mean you don’t track your spending. Being financially stable means you know where your money is going and how it is working for you.
If tracking your spending is overwhelming, try a free tool like Personal Capital to get started.
You Can Handle Large Purchases
Large purchases are somewhat relative; they can be anything from buying a ‘new to you car’ or replacing the air conditioner in your house. Regardless of what it is, you’re able to make large purchases (because you’ve planned for them) with no sweat.
You’re Financially Naked with Your Partner
Remember the thing about not fighting above? Being financially naked with your partner is a big key to that. A financially stable person bares all things financial with their partner – not just the good parts either.
A Job Loss Isn’t the End of the World
Losing a job can be traumatic; don’t get me wrong. Financial stability allows you to roll with the punches of a job loss thanks to an ample emergency fund and other savings. This allows you to take the best job for you and not just jump blindly at the next job.
You Make Extra Money on the Side
I hesitated to add this to the list, but I think it fits. Making extra money can mean many different things. It may mean you actively take on new roles in your day job. It may also mean starting a side hustle to make a few extra bucks in your free time. Bonus points for using the money to kill debt or invest.
You’re not Underwater on Your House
Remember the car above? Likewise, a financially stable person isn’t going to be underwater on a home. That’s a sign of buying too much house or not planning. Houses aren’t investments in many cases but you want to build equity right away if at all possible.
You Take Care of Your Health
I hesitated to list this one as well, but believe it fits. A financially stable person sees the impact health has on their finances – both short and long-term. This is much of why I lost 100 pounds last year on Nutrisystem as health and finances can be very intertwined.
Your Net Worth Goes Up Each Year
This is really the culmination of everything. A financially stable person seeks to grow their net worth year over year.
While some of it is out of your control when you invest in the stock market, many other things are in your control. You’re avoiding debt, you’re saving more and building streams of passive income to create an upward trajectory for your financial picture.
You Control Your Finances – not the Other Way Around
What do your finances look like? Are you in control of them, or do they control you? Financial stability means you have the control so you get to decide where your money goes, not the other way around.
You Can Buy What You Want
Financial stability provides the freedom to buy what you want. You’ve set aside the money and can do so with freedom from fear of how you’re going to afford it. If this describes you, then you’ve reached financial stability.
Spending Money Just to Spend Doesn’t Appeal to You
On the flip side of the above, you know you can afford what you want but you see many other ways to put your money to better use. In short, spending simply doesn’t appeal to you – even if you can afford it.
You Automate Savings
Automating my saving was one of the first times I felt confident with my money. Before I was worried I’d need the money for a debt payment. Now, I see it as a bill to my future self that worked even while I slept.
If you can automate your savings then you’ve reached a level of financial stability. Just make sure to pick a bank that pays that more than .001% on your cash.
You Have Plans
The level of each is personal, but financial stability means you plan for them all, and others, so you can act with confidence.
You Get Rid of Bad Habits
It’s crazy how much we spend on our bad habits. We’re all prone to them, but a financially stable person actively seeks to cut those bad habits to save money every month and grow the money instead of flushing it down the toilet.
Your Credit Score Doesn’t Scare You
Credit scores aren’t perfect by any means, but I remember where my credit score was when paying off debt. It was scary. A financially stable person has a good credit score so when they do need to borrow they get the best rates possible.
Paying Bills Doesn’t Scare You
Does the thought of paying your bills every month make you break out into a cold sweat? Do you need to come up with an in-depth plan? A financially stable person pays their bills each month with little fanfare as there are no surprises and you still have money left in your bank account when it’s over.
You Can Give Without Fear
I also hesitated to include this on the list though I believe a financially stable person can and does give out of what they have and makes a plan to do so. You’re able to give with ease and not in fear of what it might do to your finances.
You Don’t Bounce Checks
I think this is one of the very few things I didn’t do when I was mired in debt. That being said, a financially stable person doesn’t bounce checks. Now, I know mistakes can happen but you get the point – you’re not actively bouncing checks all over town.
A financially confident person knows what they have in their bank account and doesn’t watch their checks bounce like a rubber ball.
Missing A Paycheck Doesn’t Scare You
Running our own business has caused me to be more comfortable with this, but a financially stable person isn’t afraid when they miss a paycheck. They have funds in place to cover for emergencies and can deal with a temporary blip like this. Bonus points for replenishing your savings account when you do get paid.
The Purpose of Being Financially Stable
I think it’s important to remember that none of us are perfect. We all make mistakes and have hurdles to overcome. It’s also important to remember that financial stability is an ongoing journey, not simply a destination.
The goal of that journey is to grow in knowledge and your financial well-being. Both serve to living a life of freedom, not one of enslavement to others. That freedom allows you to make choices that benefit you in the long-run to live the kind of life you want.
What are some other signs of financial stability, in your opinion? What was the first thing that started the journey for you? How do you stack up against these signs?